Let me tell you right up front where I’m going with this postulation: you can tell the age of a man by the ring he wears just about as easily as you can tell the age of a tree by the number of rings it has! There you have it – Read on if you are so inclined…
It can seem impossible to make him commit to you. It may seem that it is impossible to make a guy fall in love and give a woman the manaus acompanhantes she wants. But think about this – men commit to all sorts of things all the time. They commit to leases, mortgage payments, cell phone plans and so on. They do that so that they can get something they want.
“4.2 million viewers tuned in to see Ray J pick his leading lady on the For the Love of Ray J finale episode. Cocktail was crowned the winner and all seemed great for the happy couple. We next saw them on the reunion episode where both let viewers know they were excited to see how their relationship would progress! Ray J thought he had found “the one” but unfortunately, things didn’t work out – and he’s now single again.
I’m going to stop right there. I am so sick of reading about who slept with who, who looks pretty, who doesn’t, who is pregnant, who took their baby for a walk and who looks better now than ever. There is page after page of pictures of “pretty” people littered with ads for the next hot diet or diet pill or make-up to make you feel better about yourself.
Love is recognition of equality in every form and that includes on an intellectual basis. If you are with a stereotypical woman that only wants to talk about who’s getting fired at the nail salon, or who celebrities are dating then it may not stimulate your mind. You may want to talk about a global crisis, or a natural disaster. You can tell your girlfriend is listening but is just not interactively responding to the conversation.
Cage de Artiste is another romantic hot spot for lovers and one of the oldest restaurants in the Manhattan area. They host some of the finest French cuisine in the area and offer a great romantic atmosphere. The facade is both lovely and ornate and the walls are covered with murals and plants hang all around. You will feel almost like you’re in the middle of central park. All of the locals will tell you its one of the hottest romantic spots in New York.
You don’t have to be a Pollyanna about it (= unreasonably optimistic, for our European readers) for it to work. Just your solid presence, an encouraging word here and there works. “Y’know, whatever happens, I just want you to know that I really believe in your abilities.” That’s all it takes.
Perhaps this solution is something of a let down, but the easiest answer is always the best one. In the future, learn to pace yourself. Pull out several times to help maintain control. A Turning should be respectful. It is an honored tradition dating back thousands of years.